Ghosted..

Both times when resurfacing she did so cause of something dramatic had happened in and around the sphere of interest we both share.

Ghosted..
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A woman I consider more of a friend than an acquaintance have for whatever reason ghosted me.

I really don’t know why, but it is a free world for people to do whatever they want. However, this is not the first time she did this.

The fist time around she claimed she worked too much and she was M.I.A. for a long long time. The second time around she also claimed working too much.

Both times when resurfacing she did so cause of something dramatic had happened in and around the sphere of interest we both share.

Now when being ghosted for the third time I decided to try to NOT give it a go to try to engage in a new attempt of conversation.

Even though last week there was a two spread article in a niche magazine on an extreme scandalous topic about someone we know I now stay silent.

But I’ll bet my socks she’ll resurface when the news about this article reaches her in her country of residence.

Maybe she is just a “gossipaholic!”?

So maybe I am not ghosted at all.

Maybe I just misread our friendship and my so called friend is not that into me. Those things happens even in the best of relations.

Maybe she is not a ghoster at all? Maybe she is just a “gossipaholic”? As in someone who lives for the thrill of great gossip and in between eventual scandals don’t gives a rats ass about other people.

Stay tuned cause I am pretty sure I’ ll get the opportunity to come back to this story.

Cause seeing it like this I realise this behaviour of hers is very much part of the (not so) social (media) culture we’re living in today. Which in the end of the day makes it kind of sad and make me appreciate spending time in our garden even more 😎

Here’s a post I wrote earlier this year on actually leaving the regular types of social media options out there.

Goodbye social media..
Not too long ago I said goodbye to social media. And by social media I am talking about Facebook, Instagram and the awful trash can known as Twitter. Never ever did I consider to jump onboard on the TikTok train, so need to leave them. I just never joined.