There's a certain kind of type of people...

On a good day I can see things very clearly. I can see how certain patterns repeats themselves and how I fall and or step into the same trap over and over and over again. Cannot say I like it, but at least I have noticed, identified and acknowledged that I do.

Minutes after I killed of my baby, the other site, the site I put all my time and energy into for the past six months, realising it was going no where.

New year, new goals..

Working toward an objective provides your brain with focus and direction. This, in turn, gives your life more purpose and structure.

Saving MemoriesMrs. Fruit

Minutes after I killed the project off by sending a farewell newsletter to my oh so faithful but few subscribers one of them, a real life friend, dropped me an e-mail and told me I needed a new marketing strategy!

Come again what? Once a week for 26 weeks straight I have outed my inner soul on personal stuff, general stuff and the sport (it was a sports site) in a weekly “wrap up” newsletter.

Not once did my friend come with any feed back, not once when I asked about the podcast we were supposed to do was anything easy in regards to time management. Not once!

But the minute I decide to officially declare defeat and failure with this heart project of mine, then I get this “you need a new marketing strategy” feed back.

Since I really don’t work “my socials” the way one might do I can see that that may be true. The marketing strategy bit that is. But to throw it at me after I declared defeat is kind of not “sexy” so to say.

Even worse, this is not the first time I ended up in a situation like this. There have been other projects where people been pushing me with the “keep doing it”, “you must go on” etc meanwhile themselves never even bothered to share my site and or my stories on their own socials.

But now it is enough. I kind of had enough of people that for one say they want to be part of a project but never commit. Second of all I believe it is time to clear out some toxicity from my life. My lunatic sister for one and then people like the above. Life is too short to spend it hanging around the wrong crowd.

Family feud: My sister is a lunatic..

I don’t even know where to begin! How did I end up in a family feud that would make the professional scriptwriters in Hollywood green of envy? Cause it is fair to say my sister is a complete lunatic. I know there are always to side to a story

Saving MemoriesMrs. Fruit